You never go into a relationship or get married thinking that your partner will have an affair. But, when it happens it can turn your world upside down. Your whole relationship can feel like a lie. It can be difficult to know what to believe or what to trust. It can even be challenging to know how to trust yourself.
Listen, this is an incredibly hard situation. Most people say “I thought I’d leave when if I learned of infidelity.” But, when faced with the reality of it, leaving is more difficult than it seems. You have a life built with this person, and maybe a family too. You probably still love your partner, but you may not like them. Maybe, you even hate them right now.
To say it’s complicated is an understatement.